[Enhancement] Optimize Timer Message Retry Mechanism

[chi3316]

Before Creating the Enhancement Request

• I have confirmed that this should be classified as an enhancement rather than a bug/feature.

Summary

Improve the retry mechanism in TimerMessageStore to handle message processing failures more efficiently by refining retry limits and adding better fallback handling.

Motivation

The current retry mechanism lacks flexibility, which may lead to unintentional message loss. Adding a configurable switch ensures users can choose to retain unprocessed messages after retries

Describe the Solution You'd Like

• Refine Retry Limits: Introduce a configurable retry limit to prevent endless retry loops.
• Detailed Error Handling: Categorize errors to determine retry eligibility.

Describe Alternatives You've Considered

Skipping retries entirely for certain error types but discarded due to potential message loss.

Additional Context

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